SO, college started,tests and assignments to begin with and side by side re-connecting with your old friends etc have been happening till now for most of us. What else will happen to most of us is that in a couple of years time we will try to get into some sort of a relationship with a girl. Initially you guys will say it's just friendship and we are "TRUE FRIENDS" so please don't talk anything bad about us and crap. But in a few days time that "FRIENDSHIP" will take the form of love and both of you will be committed to each other.
Then comes the main problem. FATHER. If your father had a love marriage then you are safe. Else you have to fight the kargil war alone to get your marriage fixed. If you are like me and not falling in love with anyone(ahem) then you do not have a problem. You marry any dumbo your father choses for you. Else, it's real pain and the worst part is that the probability that the end result will be sweet is only 0.5 and not1. So is your struggle really worthless?
I would say no,it is not worthless. I would also say anyday that please marry the girl/guy you loved. Because you are going to live the rest of your life with her and not your parents. If you are very sure that the guy /girl you love will always be faithful to you then go ahead. NO turning back at all. Have fun for the rest of your life after that. Caste,creed,religion etc are all crap in love. Everything is fair and square.
If you have an arranged marriage, no problem initially. But after that you may or may not have a problem. You have to understand your spouse,know his/her likes & dislikes,her strong and weak points etc and learn to adjust with it. If you can't adjust,life becomes miserable.
So do the right thing and i conclude by typing "LOVE AND LET LOVE"
Sunday, September 28, 2008
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